I’m Alive and Crafting

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I can not believe I have not posted to this blog since January.  Well actually I can.  I started a new job in February and I have been a little busy.

I doubt anyone is even checking here anymore but I have decided to write anyway.

Today I had so much fun crafting with my niece, I was suppose to craft with my niece and “The Kid” but that is another blog post in itself.  The joys horror of living with a teenage girl.

I hope to maybe find some “Linky Parties” to connect to this week, but if not it was still a great day.

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I am having a Birthday Extravagnza next weekend and we decided to do a dry run of the craft we are doing.  I purchased the letters at Hobby Lobby (they were on sale…just a bonus).

I have been “Pinning” ideas for weeks and decided I would quit “pinning” and do a little crafting.

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I must say that I decided hot glue is easier than needle and thread when making these rosettes.  I couldn’t get over how quickly they came together.  I practiced with a couple and then decided to get serious.

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I love my “C”, I have it on a shelf in my home office.  I have to say “The Niece” did a great job with her’s.  She had a lot more patience than I had, she used yarn and it turned out perfect.

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I’m A Hot Mess Working On Getting Organized

So this weekend has been a purge kinda weekend, four closets, my car, tons of decorations, trip to Goodwill, Container Store, Crate and Barrel and TJMaxx and now I’m feeling like an expert.  Well not really.

During the purging I found an article from Good Housekeeping June 2010, yeap it was stuffed in a table just waiting to be read.  Made me start thinking.  What would it take to organize the rest of the house like I did these four closets.

So here is what I decided.

To feel relaxed and enjoy my home it needs to be organized.  One of the places I enjoy visiting the most is my Spare Mom’s home.  It’s clean, it’s organized, it’s inviting.  I may never reach her level, but I am on the right track.

I think you first have to ask yourself how your life would be different.

  • You will be calmer and more relaxed when not living in chaos.
  • You will save time because things will have a home and you won’t spend time looking for items.
  • If you are like me and being organized doesn’t come “naturally” you will be proud of your accomplishments as you “fix” each area.

What is your plan?  If you don’t have one, get one.  Put it on paper or you could just “pin it”, blog it or tweet it.  Whatever you need to do, do it.  Come on if I can make this happen anyone can.

31 Days To Decluttering Your House

Free House Cleaning Printout

Checklist For Cleaning


Yearly Plan For Decluttering

7 Habits of Highly Organized People

40 Bags in 40 Days

– Jim Rohn -

I found the above quote at Operation Organize, she has some great printables.

Do you want to organize, but spending a ton of money isn’t appealing or maybe not even feasible?  Try these great ideas-

31 Days to Cheaply Organizing

Cereal Box Drawer Dividers


Wrapping Paper?

Bathroom Cabinet?

cleaner holder

Do you love the over the door hanger, stole this I mean saw this from Laura(I have to admit I might have a little “girl crush”) over at I’m An Organized Junkie?  Writing this post took on a life of it’s own when I found the “Start Here” page at I’m An Organized Junkie.

Ball Caps?

I have to say going to The Container Store is like therapy for me.  I have never been able to figure it out, I can spend hours there and sometimes only spend $20.  I must admit yesterday’s trip cost me more than $20.

The extra large size Trash Stand Vehicle Litter Bin has a weighted bottom and grip strips to keep it upright and in place. Great for the passenger seat floor, or for the back of your minivan or SUV.

My favorite purchase was a floor litter bag like the one pictured above.  I must say I found some other fun stuff at Cargo Gear.  I will be ordering for sure.  Back to not spending a lot of money, I was so sad when I found this beauty over at Simply Keirste.

I thought this post would take weeks, I was hoping to post it by Feb. 1st and then I stumbled upon The Happy Housewife and her list.  She is my new hero.

I have started a book Cut The Clutter And Stow The Stuff,

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Balance….What Is That?

There is little difference in people, but that little difference makes a big difference. That little difference is attitude. The big difference is whether it is positive or negative. – W. Clement Stone

I just spent two days at a great conference.  I listened, I took notes and I processed, now to put it all into action.  Oh wait I won’t be trying to put it all into action because after all where would the balance be.

I left for the conference with a heavy and confused heart, so many people around me hurting and everyone looking out for themselves and not the whole picture.  I’d like to say not looking out for the whole family, but over the last few days I’ve come to the conclusion it’s not one family.  Sad, but true.  I still don’t know what to do with that conclusion, but I know that the first step is coming up with the plan is acceptance.

I am accepting that as adults some of us have “gotten over” more than others.  I am accepting that when people don’t want to hear “the rest of the story” they can turn people off and bury their heads.  I am accepting that my heart hurts and that as long as I let other people’s actions influence my thinking I am going to continue to hurt.  I am accepting that people don’t always know how to be the person you need or want them to be.  I am accepting that some people want to feel sorry for themselves and you can’t change that.  I am accepting that I am a survivor and I can’t let things I can’t control cause me any more hurt.

I have decided to love people in spite of their faults.  I have decided to forgive even if I don’t think “they deserve it”.  I have decided to give myself a “time out” and not try to fix things.  I have decided not to let myself be hurt by other people’s behavior and to just continue to do what is right.

I am going to journal my feelings, spend time in my craft room, read great books, listen to great music, drink good wine and spend time and energy on people who appreciate the good in life and I will not feel guilty for not allowing myself to be sucked in.

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It’s hard to believe the shower is over.  I am not sure we realized how quick it would be here and gone.  I think we had just as much fun putting it all together as we had at the shower….my assitants might not agree.

The invites were put together with a little help from Etsy, I know the invite came from Dana and I also think the insert came from her shop.  She was great to work with.


 One of the funniest comments came from Cousin 1 Belinda, “Why did we have to do invites that had to be folded, taped and layered with this and that and tied with ribbon?”  That’s just how we roll.


We had a big barrier in the fact that we weren’t allowed to hang anything on the walls at the room we rented.  We didn’t let that stop us from making banners.  Oh the banners.




Oh and we can’t forget the many paper pom poms that Jules worked so hard on.


We could not believe how easy the pom poms were, if you haven’t tried them check out this You Tube Video (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=THcuWYsifec)


This was in the entrance, a chalk board that started out as a big ole’ ugly picture from the thrift store.  Amazing what a little spray paint can do, oh yeah and a couple more banners.  The tally ended up being 19 for a boy and 18 for a girl, we’ll see.

I won’t even try to suggest that we could have done this shower without Pinterest, you can find my boards right here.

I will be linking to some blog parties this week, trying to find my next fun project.

DIY Show Off

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Dr. Seuss Baby Shower

I am making a commitment to blog, I am motivated by a baby shower I am working on. As my cousin Belinda said today, “This train has left the station without a caboose.”

We have completed the invitations, I will give details and links to the Etsy shop later.


Tomorrow night we keep the train on the tracks and complete our glasses.


I don’t know if this would have all come together so easily without Pinterest. You can follow my boards at Michelle Christian Chasteen.


I said the other day this shower will be like Christmas, over in a blink of an eye.

I am now trying to figure out a cute idea for our pens, suggestions welcome.

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New Year, New Hair, New Word and New Project

Yes, I have been a horrible blogger.  I am going to change that.

New Year….New Stuff.

First on the agenda.  New hair, priorities you know.

ImageThe First Born helped me pick a word yesterday, RELAX is the word.  I love watching Ali Edward’s blog and seeing how everyone stays focused on their words and uses that “one little word” to change their lives.  Let’s see if I learn how to RELAX!


I love this project!  I had a big ole blank wall and couldn’t find the “perfect” solution.  I asked Mr. Wonderful to find me some old barn wood.  He found the barn wood and make the backdrop, BUT then I had nothing to finish it off.  Along came Christmas and I received a gift from this great Etsy shop.  The rest is history.  Thanks Mr. Wonderful another great project complete.

ImageImageI am already looking for my next project!  Oh what will it be?

I am going to “Link Up” to a little party over at One Letter Cottage.

The Lettered Cottage
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Have You Missed Me?

I can remember when each day I was pondering what to write about, which adult child to piss off by writing about their lives, what teenage temper tantrum would make my mothering skills sound almost “normal” or what project I was going to get Mr. Wonderful involved in…..well HIVES AND MENOPAUSE have taken over my life so now days I google hives, Urticaria, allergist, itching, stress……not quite as much fun.

I am getting involved LifeCenter here in Cincinnati, during my hiatus from blogging my sister, Marsha passed away.  As a family we found a lot of peace in Marsha’s decision to be an organ donor.

Green Ribbon - Sister Hoodie

I have decided that instead of talking about hives, hormones, death, grief and organ donation I’d start new blogs for those topics….I’ll share more information about that soon.  I do want to ask if you are a reader and you aren’t an organ donor please register, I have set a goal of getting 100 donors in my sister’s memory….I have three so far.  Just leave me a comment here or an email at mich_chasteen@yahoo.com.

Just wanted everyone to know I’m alive with a bunch of “stuff” going on, but have promised myself at least one blog post a week….blogging always made me feel good and right now I need something in that department.

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